Tuesday, August 3, 2010

To Date or Not To Date

No shit there I was....

So talking to my good friend Mr Pookie Mans, and I was asked how it felt to have a wife living in a separate house from me... My first reaction, shut up Pookie Mans! My second reaction was, well kinda strange.

For those of you who don't know I will not explain. Needless to say Conjugal Relations SHALL wait until she is 25. No sooner, maybe later, but no sooner. There are several good reasons. None of which I shall enumerate here. Suffice to say I do have good, valid, explainable reasons. 4 of them!

So... My comments of: It's complicated, Yes, No, Maybe are all valid. Suffice to say, that I am getting my older generation brain dump trying to grapple with the concept of the day and age of "Age is just a number" to agree. Not an easy task given the set of standards I was raised with.

So, the no shit there I was: Having thought of it, there is a logical reason to wait. There is a good reason to wait. And wait we shall. No one has to like it, and if she needs to scratch an itch before she is 25, I am not going to tell her no. Am I going to give the twinned ring set a shot? That is another quandry that I have to wrestle with.

More musings later. Must muse away

2 comments:

  1. If you noticed after the last conversation we had I have dropped it. only one thing to add to this is make sure she knows if she does scratch an itch that she hasn't lost you for doing it. Hugs

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  2. Oh she already knew that.
    Or she should.

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